Do you cling to the bars and want to go outside or are you timidly hiding behind them? Is everything you want outside the fence? Or is it not?
How are you feeling? As the winner of your life or as a prisoner? Where are you on which side? Where is what you call life? And is this really Life?
Whatever you answer is fine. It only matters how you feel about it. Are you happy and satisfied with this or maybe you are not…? Only your feeling is crucial. To do something or maybe not. No one on the side can appreciate that better than yourself. Because only you know the true truth …
And I just remind you that you have the right to be what you want and where you want to be. That you are worth it. That you have the ability to change something. That you deserve to feel fantastic and in love with your life! And every new day …
Because you didn’t come here to torture yourself. You came to live!
So live!
Mischievous Words by Marta 
Hey Marta, whatever you wrote in your blog is really encouraging for the new-generation like me, we just forget the reason of being on earth, we get dragged into totally nuisance stuff and ends up torturing ourselves only, In the race of of popularity we forget how to live and how to enjoy life, I really liked your words from the bottom of my heart😊😊
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Beautifully said. I have a pretty good feel for where I am right now and am working towards getting myself into an even better spot down the road. Definitely enjoying my life and my kids. Focusing on finding work that I enjoy. Thanks for sharing this post!
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Wow this is a really thoughtful and interesting post! Thank you!
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Great post. Definitely living through the bars right now with everything that’s going on and not being able to go out but isn’t everyone! I often have these types of thoughts about life and whether I feel like I’m in control or a prisoner.
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This was an excellent post. I’m struggling to not live through bars if that makes sense. It’s all too easy to fall into those ways, especially at the moment.
Stay safe!
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Well put! with this epidemic we are all scared to be outside but luckily, there are ways to help yourself. I like walking and gardening. That helps
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As someone who suffers from anxiety disorder, I felt as though you were speaking directly to me. I don’t want to live behind those bars.
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Thanks for the positive words. This was a nice post to read and a good reminder to try and live freely.
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I know many people that suffer with anxiety and my sister in law never leaves her room because of it. I used to get frustrated with her like… what the heck is she doing in there all day…. but this has enlightened me so thank you! It is a horrible thing to feel that you live beyond bars and are afraid.
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True! We came here to live and survive not to torture ourselves daily. It’s about perspective!
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This is very uplifiting and encouraging right now. Thank you for sharing it.
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This is lovely. Sometimes we are caged by our fears, limitations, and flaws that we forget that we are enough and were born enough.
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I totally agree with with the last sentence. Even in hard times we need to remember that we are here to live!
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Amazing and inspiring!!! Thank you!!! I have a 5-year plan that I follow, it is not easy to always follow it but it gives me a direction.
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The things we want are usually behind the bars or not within our reach. Everyone will get there in their own time!
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This is very inspiring. It’s always our own choice how we respond to what happens to us in life. 🙂 When we know how to play it well and cool, we will come out happier. 🙂
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Very interesting post. I am in between – a person behind the bars and a person who loves to be out there. Sometimes its very hard for me and I stay behind., which I am trying to change.
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Yes, sometimes. I must admit I am. This is a good post to read.
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This is just wonderful! I love that you gave me so much to think about!
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I am ok right now in life. I have some skeletons in the closet and I feel sometimes I am behind the bars because of what people want me to be. Going to counseling for this.
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Short and wonderfulpost. I’m psychologist and you sad everything in a motivational way for all readers.
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I love this thought. I did come here to live and I need to remember that sometimes.
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