Never let someone else’s opinion define you

It is probably clear to anyone working on themselves that a person, truly happy on the inside, of a dazzling soul, of a peculiar spirit, has no need to gossip, humiliate, or disturb anyone’s harmony of existence. In this way, you can tell if spending time with someone will bear fruit for your life, peace, happiness and well-being, or if you clearly show signs that you should not stop believing in yourself, because someone does not believe in you.

It is quite common for self-confidence to fluctuate with regard to acceptance in society, social or material status, popularity on social networks, etc. Also, many people’s self-confidence is shaken when they find themselves in a situation where someone ‘hates’ them, is not their friend, gossips behind his back, he puts his foot down and other situations.

The worst thing is to turn around and allow ourselves to be inclined to let our day, mood, business, living space or even relationship, relationships and friendship be uncomfortable by someone who really doesn’t care about your soul, emotions, or even life.

Many lose ground under their feet when they find themselves in the grip of condemnation, because, they simply breathe.

But it is probably clear to anyone who works on himself, that a person truly happy on the inside, of a dazzling soul, of a peculiar spirit, has no need to gossip, humiliate, or disturb anyone’s harmony of existence.

So that you can tell if long-term association with someone will bear fruit for your life, peace, happiness and well-being, or if you are clearly showing signs that you should not stop believing in yourself, because someone does not believe in you, and sometimes and you stop believing in yourself.

In other cases, when people do not act maliciously, not in the least, they can put a ‘bug in your ear’, which gives you no peace.

It is important to know that people give advice, from their experiences, from their lived journey, and do not bother too much with the details of your story.

Your dreams and possibilities. There are times even today when people are quite limited only by their own experience and from that angle they can ‘help’ with advice or help.

So as long as you have your goal, you resonate in wonderful emotions with it, you don’t interfere with someone else’s free will in creating your own path on earth, you need to know that self-confidence and self-love is the key to success.

So even if you find yourself drowned in the feeling that your self-confidence is fragile, think about which words, sentences or people influenced you.

Why do you accept something so personal if it is about someone with whom you have no contact?

Of course, if it is someone you love, you will care that the person understands and accepts you, and sees you the way you experience yourself or want to start experiencing. But creative people are full of love, and they will not need to constantly belittle you and your plans, goals and concretize them.

So don’t lose the ground under your feet, if there are people around you who love and appreciate you, and lose self-confidence and give up on yourself because of those who neither know you nor intend to know you and treat everyone around you that way, because they don’t know each other better expressed.

You should understand that many mind about anything AND EVERYTHING

And getting up in the morning and going to nature, romance, books are boring to them, people tire them, everyone is to blame or indebted to them, they are not looking forward to birthdays, art, etc., so that people who do not know how to choose almost nothing , you do not lose self-confidence, if you know where you are going, how you want to live, you love yourself and your life.

There will always be jealousy, sarcasm, resentment, but you really don’t need to be bothered by the comment of someone who doesn’t know how to draw a human figure. You don’t need to sober up someone in love, because as academician Luko Paljetak said in his poem: Fall in love at least a little, every day.

Your life is in your hands, as is your self-confidence which is fragile and can be shaken from time to time. But even when it dose sways, let it not be because of someone who is used to being rude to himself and others, and does not tend to grow into a beautiful swan.

Affirmation: My self-confidence is getting stronger every day, as well as the love I give to myself and others.