
It’s hard sometimes to go against the heart, but it’s even harder when you’re constantly going against yourself. Don’t do it to yourself! You don’t live here long enough to make such colossal mistakes.
There are a lot of people waiting for you, people who are willing to do many beautiful things for you but may be ashamed to show it, they may be too closed to admit it to you. Discover them and then give them your heart.
Stop fighting for people who have been leaving you for years but never to leave because there is always some need or some interest bringing them back into your world. You don’t deserve to be surrounded by bad actors who will offer you some nice word or smile for a moment but there will only be one big gap behind it. Don’t ignore the facts you see because you carry in your head the outlines of a better world, so that in the end it doesn’t overwhelm you.
Respect
Once you realize that you deserve full respect you will no longer run into the arms of those who can’t and don’t want to give it to you but will give you a moment of attention because behind it they will get something from you.
Enjoy the opportunities you have with you, get to know what you carry in your soul, get to know the talents so you will see that you don’t have to wallow in a relationship where you will always have a sense of inferiority and lack of self-esteem.
Don’t stick to your past just because it had bright spots for a few moments, maybe it was all a fake glow. When you discover your worth, your eyes and heart will be opened to things that will fill your life with wonderful blessings. Don’t overlook them!
Nurture gratitude for all those good things in life and you will see how they will increase. And send all those negative people, situations and events into the past. They belong to them.
Excellent advice for any and all. Good job!🤓
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I love the part where you explain that when you realize you deserve respect you no longer look for it from those who can’t/don’t reciprocate is so important for us all to realize — 100% needed this!
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Over the pandemic some friends of mine became distant but true friends keep making the effort, I find.
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That is right. Anybody who values and respects you will make an effort for you, because they know that you will make an effort for them too. Keep those friends close.
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