We make fun of each other and look for their shortcomings because we do not love ourselves. We do not love ourselves as we are. We know how much our shortcomings hurt us, but then why don't we keep quiet when we notice them in others ?! We humiliate each other to the bone, without pity.
About women and female domination
What is female domination? This is the domination of women over women, mothers over daughters, older relatives, or bosses over subordinates. Sometimes there is such an ugly form of psychological and physical violence that it becomes sad.
Our society is generally very poorly regulated, all sociologists notice that. The topic of female solidarity is perhaps the most ridiculed topic. For example, I often hear a “joke” about a woman’s friendship.
See how we behave on social media and how we comment on texts online. We bravely humiliate and insult other women, ruthlessly, consciously putting pressure on what hurts our neighbor, friend, mother, or teacher the most.
Why do we hate each other so much?
Because we don’t love ourselves. We do not love ourselves as we are. We look for flaws in ourselves and indulge in others who have the same flaws. We never forgive. We do not accept. We don’t put up with it. We know how much our shortcomings hurt us, but then why don’t we keep quiet when we notice them in others. We humiliate each other to the bone, without pity.
It’s amazing to us that for some reason it’s easier to justify men than women. When a man insults a woman, we laugh. And we never ask ourselves, why does the stronger insult the weaker? What, then, is his strength?
Worst of all are stories of violence against women. Mothers, sisters, friends of these women who experienced violence, often blamed the woman themselves “because she provoked the man to such a reaction!”
Haven’t we always listened to how problems are easier to solve together? So try to figure out that woman sitting next to you. Accept her without anger and be supportive of her.
We are all different and each is special. There are married and unmarried, housewives and career women, women without children and those with three children, happy and unhappy…
Is there greater happiness for children than a happy mom? And maybe mom is happy because she’s doing her favorite job? So why make her life miserable with petty complaints? Be in solidarity with your colleagues.
And it doesn’t matter who we are by profession, whether we have children at home or just a pet, it matters that we are women. It is important to support each other, to help each other.
Be kind and respectful to each other, because you can be!
Mischievous Words by Marta 