Integrity. Are you looking for that feeling in others? Are you asking something external to come full circle? To fill you up?
What do you miss?
You to yourself.
Nobody and nothing outside. Because nothing external can complete you if you feel empty.
It’s like a bottomless well. Never enough…
Because no one can give you enough love if you don’t love yourself. No one can respect you enough if you don’t respect yourself. No one can fill your world if you don’t know how to fill it yourself.
If you go that way, you will always lack something.
Because it goes the other way around.
First, you need to feel wholeness in yourself. Realize that you are already full circle. And everything external can only decorate additionally.
So stop looking for the other half, because that way you only confirm that you are the other half.
Stop chasing work to feel a sense of power and value, because you are a powerful and valuable being already.
Stop looking for validation and acceptance from others and start accepting yourself. Exactly as you are.
All wealth is already in you. Everything you aspire to.
Don’t wait for someone else to give you all those emotions and confirm your worth. You have already confirmed it yourself. Right now.
And close the circle.
Because that’s the only way full circles will start to meet you. And not half things.
You deserve more, the most! Not just good, but the best!
But it should start with you…
And when you become aware of who you are and don’t settle for more or less, the Universe has no choice but to reflect your new state.
And give you more. Much more!
Most!
Mischievous Words by Marta 
Thank you for this beautiful post. I have to remember not to allow my job to be validate me because at any time it can change.
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I am 100% me. I don’t need anyone or anything to complete me. I love the line, “You deserve more, the most! Not just good, but the best!” That is absolutely true! Thank you for sharing.
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That is very well said – I loved how you say “Because no one can give you enough love if you don’t love yourself.” I have seen it first hand, how important it can be.
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“ Don’t wait for someone else to give you all those emotions and confirm your worth. You have already confirmed it yourself. Right now.” this was my favorite part. I think we tie how we think people will perceive us to our self worth and it’s wrong. We should always be enough
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Such a great post! You are 100 percent right until we truly love ourselves whole heartedly and accept us nothing nothing else can stick. We are the keepers of our own happiness and thoughts. Keep up the great posts.
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My philosophy is that a healthy relationship isn’t 50-50, but 100-100. You have to be complete to have a healthy relationship. I’ve been on the dating scene for 2 years and guys always look for women to complete them. When I tell them I feel complete the way I am and I’m looking for a kind of pleasant addition to my life, they ghost me or tell me I’m crazy, avoidant, closed off, cold-hearted, narcissistic, etc. and leave.
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Thank you so much for this post! Such a great reminder and very much needed. We need to learn to love ourselves first.
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Great post and totally correct. Learning to love ourselves is the best thing we could do! It transforms things.
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This is a truly inspiring post. I used to have the issue of searching for approval in the past. I wish I had someone to say these things to me back then – that no external validation can make me feel better. Thanks for sharing!
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