Stay away from people you are not good too- no one ever is for them!

Get away from the one you are afraid of, because of whom you breathe with half a lung because your body will not forgive so much silence, because you may agree, but your soul will not. Get away from a bad people and maybe cure panic attacks, anxiety or depression, because that doesn’t mean you don’t love life — but you don’t love that kind of life with such people.

Why are some people not good with each other? Why are there so many bad marriages and bad relationships, bad parenting and bad friendships? Some people just aren’t good with themselves and so are they not good with others. And all because they are not well, because the sun is not yellow enough for them, and the moon is set at an angle. So how will anybody be tailored to them then.

There are people who are planted in such a way, made to see something bad and some guilt in everything.

It is impossible for them, it is completely impossible to make them happy, because since they opened their eyes, they see other people’s incompetence everywhere. They always see how, for example, someone has parked the car badly, how they are dressed incorrectly, how someone doesn’t know what they are doing, how badly they look at it.

Such people see how someone is simple or stupid, ugly or corrupt, and so on without end. No woman or husband, no child, one’s own or someone else’s, deserves such a thing. They generate unhappiness around them, because if they are not well – and they are not, no one next to them can warm up, laugh or enjoy themselves on the fire, as they should. I see them when they bring someone of theirs for an examination and it is clear that they brought him, because next to them everyone is drying up like a faded flower.

There is no point in saying anything to a man who has been “detained” as a recognized patient, because he returns with such a man to the house where he is with him all day, from morning to evening. And then there is no luck and no psychology, because every psychology is demagoguery when we unhappily associate life with a difficult man, a sharp look and gloomy thoughts.

Such a person is a dementor from Harry Potter, they suck all happiness out of everybody.

And I want to tell everyone – there is nothing wrong with you, just run away, just get out of this way, even if he was closest to you. Get away from him if you wither because of him, if you sit on half a chair, if you hold your breath when he steps into the room, if you are afraid of what he will say and what he will do, if you feel upset about him, if you do not sleep because of such someone.

If you don’t grow because of such a man, if you don’t laugh, if you’re completely wrong with someone, if your happiness is inappropriate for him and you can’t share the joy with him. Get away from the one you dread, for whom you breathe with half a lung because your body will not forgive so much silence, because you may agree, but your soul will not.

Get away from a bad man and maybe cure panic attacks, anxiety or depression, because that doesn’t mean you don’t love life but you don’t love that kind of life with such a man. Don’t be next to the one who doesn’t look at you nicely, to whom you are somehow inappropriate, even if he was closest to you. From those closest to you, a person gets the worst, and never from those far away.

Be with the one you are beautiful, the one you are good – in marriage, life, friendship, parenthood.

Do not heat the unheated ones and do not warm the frozen ones. Get rid of that job, don't even try. Who even told you to keep trying. Get away from people you are not good for, because for them often no one is good enough.

Just disappear and let them, without the one they attack, turn their anger from you to them. And leave them to their “greenery”, because for some there is really no help. They are unhappily assembled, so you do not assemble anyone else, but deal with your torn parts.